Life is Unpredictable... Let the Hatred Die!

We dream in sleepless nights, we hope when there is hard luck, we love when we only get hatred, we give when everyone wants to take, we laugh when we want to cry, we live when we want to die....!

Life is a puzzle; in fact it is unpredictable to plan anything for tomorrow. You need to feel right today and you need to treat someone right today because there could be no tomorrow for both. It is difficult to say what will be tomorrow, it can be worst. Do you want to regret for what you are doing today or the way you are treating others? We do have emotional setbacks in life but that does not mean that you reflect it on someone else. Or you become prejudice about every happening. Everyone deserves a chance for what they could be why to treat someone insensitively for their unfortunate past. Maybe it is a good thing that time cannot erase everything. You too may have had gone through painful and sour moments; do you want to repeat it in someone else’s life?

You may never know how someone must have put in all the efforts to love you. Despite of all the evil spirit around, they believed in you and followed you through all the off-roads. There were days they used to dread getting up in the morning and lived most of their moments being depressed. Do you want them to regret for confiding in you? Just because something becomes repetitive does not mean it needs to be replaced. Think of the time when all you wanted was that person. There is no incarnation in reality. It is just an excuse for the people who want to get rid of the present situation. There could be no second chance to change things. The problem is we do not realize what we have until the situation is changed. We take things for granted on a daily basis, always with the assumption that whenever we need something, it will be there. What if you step out of the house tomorrow a car hits you and you are dead on the spot? Or if you are going to express your love to the person you took for granted all your life has committed suicide waiting for you... Do you see any second chance here? The answer is No. As it is rightly said, “Time and tide waits for none,” there is no surety of tomorrow.

Appreciate what you have before it becomes what you had. Believe me the healing doesn't happen overnight it can take a toll on someone’s life. Never let go of the person who tries to stick by you regardless of how difficult you are. Keep them because finding someone who loves you more than their life does not happen every day. Let the hatred die today... “Kya Pata Kal Ho Na Ho”

“Same pinch...”

Same pinch... Uncanny connections... Cryptic dreams... There tends to be some weird synchronicity surrounding upon your engagement with that someone special in your life. That someone, who have locks to fit your keys. As it is spiritually said, the name of your spiritual half is pre-determined. Each soul has a perfect match... your ‘Soul mate.’

No matter what you were told, what you have perceived or what you have planned about your individual choices, your life already has an underlying meaningful plan for you. This is what is called as ‘fate.’ Believe it or not, you are not following yourself but an encoded destiny. Your meeting is first of many miracles to begin the storyline of a chapter you have planned for the evolution of your relationship. There was a pull since the first time your eyes met and you entered into each other’s atmosphere like the sun and the moon. When you two like to listen to the same kind of music, love identical art expressions, like to read the same kind of articles or blogs and watch the sky, the sunsets, the sunrises it means you essentially feel what the other one feels.

“The perfect one” is an idealized myth peddled to the masses, these preaching sets up for nothing but disappointment due to unmet expectations. People fail to understand that they do not need an ideal relationship but a magic mirror with which you can see yourself the way you are. This will easily help you to understand which button to push to get a certain reaction from your beloved. It is very important to understand that whatever pain your soul mate causes you is out of love.  It is done to open your eyes and understand your partner is merely reflecting back to what is inside you. Only a soul that loves you and wants the best for you would do something like that. Please note, as nothing is permanent not even the goodness of your partner you have to be receptive enough to acquire the sour times that you will have to face timely because your partner can be a disguise at times. With time you will be uncovering the sensitivities of each other.   

Although most people think of a life companion as a perfect bliss, your special one should be the person who can complement you in every sphere of life. Be it your dreams, hobbies... you should together be able to make a ‘bucket list’ then pack your bags and go on a spree to accomplish it. Someone who can bring you to life no matter what, just do not let that person go and hold tightly to let your love grow!